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He Used Me Solely for Immigration Purpose
Briefly, I went to India in year 2004 and got married Barjinder S. Brar on April 25, 2004. He told us that he got B.com and currently finishing his master degree. I stayed there for three weeks after marriage but I never had any physical relationship with him. I returned from India on May 18, 2004 and applied for him to come to Canada in June, 2004.
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He never told me when he got visa from the Canadian embassy but he called me on October 2, 2004 and told me that he would be coming in Canada on October 10, 2004, but never mentioned what time he would be landing at the Vancouver airport. He promised me to call back to confirm the actual schedule of his flight. That was his last call, and he never called me back. I tried to call him no one would answer the phone. I thought he might be busy in shopping and he would call me whenever he would be free. On October 10, 2004, I called him on his cell but his cell number was disconnected at that time. |
Then I tried to call his home phone number, no one was answering the phone. Eventually I called his uncle’s cell, and he told me sarcastically that Barjinder already flew to Canada and would be arriving there on October 11, 2004. Then he gave the phone to Barjinder’s mother who told me that “didn’t Barjinder confirm you when he is coming there?” I knew at that time there is something wrong, but I could not do anything to stop his immigration because it was a long weekend, and I was unable to call to the immigration. She told me that she did not have his flight # and flight time, but she assured me that they don’t have anything planned in their mind to cheat me when I asked why he flew to Canada without confirming me his flight schedule. Then she said that she would find out his flight schedule and call me back in 5 minutes. After five minutes she called me back and gave his flight # and flight time and kept saying go there on time and no one else is picking him up from the airport. I was really upset why they told me at the last minute. My mother calmed me down and encouraged me to go at the airport and everything should be fine once we meet him. We quickly went to the airport and waited there for him. He landed at Vancouver Airport on October 11, 2004. Upon his arrival, he surprisingly showed very strange behavior since the minute that he came here to Canada. He refused to come with me from the airport and was making every excuse to escape from the airport. His friend’s uncle was there at the airport and Barjinder wanted to go with him but he refused to take with him. He did come with us eventually and started fighting as soon as we arrived home, and he even demanded $18,000 dollars from me so he can sponsor her cousin, Parminder K. Brar on student visa in Canada. Ever since he has arrived, he has refused to cooperate, slept in a separate room and refused to eat anything from our house. He stayed at our home for 1 day and assaulted me on October 13, 2004 at 5 am and ran away. It is obvious that his intention was not to stay with me and just married me for a sole purpose of obtaining permanent status in Canada. He did not bring along my jewelries and clothes with him that he promised me to bring when he come to Canada. Barjinder had used many fraudulent documents in his immigration application He also admitted to me that he has grade 12 educations while he indicated in the immigration application that he has been doing masters degree. He showed us fake degree certificate before he got married me. In the meantime there are no laws/policies that protect sponsor in case the sponsored person abuses them. In my case, I am completely betrayed by him and feeling helpless as I cannot get support from anywhere. I have been also going through emotional problem since this happened to me. As a result of this, I cannot work anymore and currently I am also facing financial situation. I am very devastated and depressed by Mr. Brar’s dishonest, unfaithful and deceptive behaviour.
Barjinder has already filed for divorce but I want to have marriage annulment as this was not valid marriage, and I never had physical relationship with him. I spent about $50,000 on the marriage, this includes dowry, immigration fees, and some other expenses. I have gone through emotional problems, and financial problems but I have not been justified yet. I have given all the documents to the immigration that supports Brajinder’s intention was to get immigration through marrying me from the day one. He obviously committed a fraud and should be deported back to India.
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